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一位美国妈妈给儿子使用手机的家规 ,值得中国家长学习 一一一黛茜(Daisy)于2017,4,21日[USA,斯坦福]  

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惊呆于这位美国母亲的智慧。中国的家长,尤其是被孩子的手机问题困扰的家长无论如何要多读几次,好好学习。
《The wisdom of the mother was in the the United States. Chinese parents, especially parents in the child's mobile phone problem no matter how to want to read a few times more, study well.》

一位美国妈妈给儿子使用手机的家规 ,值得中国家长学习
《An American mother to son cell phone use rules, Chinese parents should learn》

Dear Gregory: merry Christmas! Now you're proud to be the owner of an iPhone. That's great! You are a good, responsible, a 13-year-old boy deserves the gift. But at the same time of accepting the gift, you have to follow some rules and regulations. Please use the following contracts from start to finish to read it again. I hope you can understand, my duty is to put you into a comprehensive development of young people, physically and mentally healthy, beneficial to the society, so that they can adapt to the new technology and not to be. If you have not been able to observe the following agreement, I will end you the ownership of the iPhone
1. This is my mobile phone, I pay for. I lend it to you now, I isn't it great?

2. The phone password must want to let me know.

3. If the telephone rang, he must answer, because this is a telephone. Pick up the phone to say "hello", be polite. Never for caller id is "mama" or "daddy", deliberately not pick up. Don't ever do that.

4. 9 in the evening, from Monday to Friday at 7:30 in the evening, weekend on the phone to me or your father. We will put off your phone, at 7:30 in the morning to boot. If you don't want to call a friend's machine, because his parents could pick up the phone first, then don't play, also don't use their phones to send text messages to him. Listen to your intuition, respect other people's family, just like we hope to get respect from others.

5. Mobile phone cannot be brought to the school. You have to learn from those who contact you by text chat face to face, because it is a life skill. If only half lesson, go out to visit and study of extracurricular activities, etc., can be considered separately.

6. If the phone fell into the toilet, fell to the ground, or missing, you have to bear the cost of replacement parts or to be responsible for the maintenance. You can mow the lawn, for others to see children or save a part of the birthday gift. To avoid such things happen, you should be prepared to.

7. Don't use the high-tech products to lie, to fool or deceive others. Don't say something hurt others on the phone. To be a friend, or just stay away from the dispute.

8. Stay away from pornography. When using mobile Internet to search and browse only those he can share the information with me. If you have any questions about anything, you can find someone to ask, it is better to ask me or your father.

9. To set the phone to mute in public, and put away, especially in restaurants, cinema or talking to another person. You are not a rude person, don't let the iPhone changed that one bit.

10. Don't send or receive you or anyone else body private parts of the picture. Don't laugh. Don't think you are very clever, one day will be tempted to do such a thing. That's a big risk, it may ruin your school, college and adult life. It is always a bad idea. Network space is vast, powerful, its strength is far better than you think it is very difficult to make any such event a trace, including bad reputation.

11. Don't take pictures and video endlessly, it is not necessary to record everything. To experience life attentively, these experiences will be live in your memory

12. Sometimes it may not take phone go out, to no one and decided to do it, don't feel upset. Mobile phone is not a living creature, also is not how long you out of things, to learn to put aside mobile life. Don't always afraid I missed what, want to make my mind stronger.

13. Download some trendy, classical or different music, don't like your countless peers, all listen to the same song. Your generation has unmatched in the history of convenient conditions, can be in contact with all kinds of music. Make good use of this advantage, broaden your horizons.

14. Don't always staring at the phone, looked up and pay attention to what happened around you, look out the window, listen to birdsong, go for a walk and talk with strangers. Keep a curious heart, don't always use Google to look for the answer.

15. Suppose one day you have made a mess of life, then I will take back your mobile phone. We will sit down and talk, then start again from scratch. You and I are in constant learning. I'm on your side of the "team", let us work together to face.

I hope you can agree to these terms and conditions. Listed above the most telling, not only applies to the iPhone, also apply to your life. Today's rapidly changing world, exciting and full of temptation, you grew up in such an environment, over time, to try to keep calm. To believe in your wise mind and a strong heart, don't be around any machine. I love you. I hope you like this awesome new iPhone! Merry Christmas!

The wisdom of the mother was in the the United States. Chinese parents, especially parents in the child's mobile phone problem no matter how to want to read a few times more, study well

译中文:

一位美国妈妈给儿子使用手机的家规 ,值得中国家长学习

亲爱的格雷戈里:圣诞快乐!现在你已经骄傲地成为一部iPhone的拥有者了。太棒了!你是一个优秀的、有责任心的13岁男孩,理应得到这份礼物。不过在接受这份礼物的同时,你还得遵守一些规章制度。请把下面的使用合约从头至尾读一遍。我希望你能明白,我的职责是把你培养成一个全面发展、身心健康、对社会有益的年轻人,从而能够适应新技术且不被其左右。如果你没能遵守下列约定,我将终止你对这部iPhone的所有权。

1.这是我的手机,我付钱买的。我现在把它借给你用了,我是不是很伟大?

2.手机密码必须要让我知道。

3.如果电话铃声响了,就一定要接听,因为这是一部电话。接起电话要说“你好”,要有礼貌。永远不要因为来电显示是“妈妈”或者“爸爸”,就故意不接。永远不要这样做。

4.周一至周五晚上7:30、周末晚上9:00,准时把手机交给我或你爸。我们会把手机关机,到第二天早上7:30再开机。如果你不愿意给某个朋友家的座机打电话,因为他的父母可能会先接起电话,那就不要打,也不要用手机给他发短信。要听从自己的直觉,尊重别人的家人,就好像我们希望得到别人的尊重那样。

5.手机不能带到学校。你要学会与那些你用短信联系的人面对面地聊聊天,因为这是一种生活技能。如遇到只上半天课、外出参观学习以及有课外活动等情况,可另行考虑。

6.如果手机掉进厕所、摔到地上或是不翼而飞,你得承担更换零件的费用或负责维修。你可以修剪草坪、替别人看孩子或者把一部分生日礼金存起来。这样的事难免发生,你应当做好准备。

7.不要利用这个高科技产品说谎、愚弄或者欺骗他人。不要在电话里说一些伤害他人的话。要做一个良友,或者干脆远离争端。

8.远离色情内容。用手机上网时,只能搜索和浏览那些可以坦然与我分享的信息。如果你对任何事情有疑问,可以找个人问问,最好是问我或者你爸。

9.在公共场合要把手机设成静音,并收起来放好,尤其是在餐厅、电影院或者与另一个人交谈的时候。你不是一个无礼的人,不要让iPhone改变这一点。

10.不要发送或接收你或者其他任何人身体私密部位的图片。不要笑。不要以为你很聪明,有一天也会被诱惑去做这样的事。这有很大的风险,可能会毁掉你中学、大学乃至成年后的生活。这永远是个坏主意。网络空间浩瀚无边,其力量远比你想象的强大,你很难让任何诸如此类的大事不留痕迹,包括坏名声。

11.不要无休止地拍照和录像,没有必要把一切都记录下来。要用心体验生活,这些生活经历将会在你的记忆中永存

12.有的时候可以不带手机出门,并且决定这么做时要心无挂碍,不要觉得不安。手机不是活物,也不是你身上多长出来的东西,要学会抛开手机生活。不要总是生怕自己错过了什么,要让自己的内心更强大。

13.下载一些新潮的、古典的或者与众不同的音乐,不要像你的无数同龄人那样,全都听一模一样的歌。你们这一代人有着史上无人能及的便利条件,可以接触各种各样的音乐。好好利用这个优势,开阔你的眼界。

14.不要总盯着手机,抬起头来,留意你周围发生的事情,看看窗外,听听鸟鸣,散散步,和陌生人说说话。保持一颗好奇之心,不要总用谷歌寻找答案。

15.假设有一天你把生活搞得一团糟,那时我会收回你的手机。我们会坐下来谈心,然后再从头开始。你和我都在不断学习。我是站在你这边的“队友”,让我们共同面对。

我希望你能同意这些条款。以上所列举的大部分告诫,不仅仅适用于这部iPhone,也适用于你的生活。今天的世界瞬息万变,惊险刺激又充满诱惑,你成长于这样的环境,不论何时都要尽量保持淡定。要相信你睿智的头脑和强大的内心,不要被任何机器左右。我爱你。希望你喜欢这部超级棒的新iPhone!圣诞快乐!

惊呆于这位美国母亲的智慧。中国的家长,尤其是被孩子的手机问题困扰的家长无论如何要多读几次,好好学习。
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